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Stuck Points in EMDR: Somatic Integration and Processing Explained | Notice That
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Stuck Points in EMDR: Somatic Integration and Processing Explained | Notice That

It's just the two of us this time. Bridger and Jen return to the model that sits underneath nearly everything we talk about on this podcast: Somatic Integration and Processing (SIP), Beyond Healing Institute's case conceptualization approach.

Seven years and more than a thousand trained therapists in, we look at where SIP started, what has changed, and why it matters most at the stuck points in EMDR. We cover its three spheres (relationship, body, and memory) and the intersubjective space where they meet between therapist and client. Then we zoom in on one of the hardest stuck points: the SUD drops from a 9 to a 2, the client keeps answering your questions, and the activation is gone. We talk about why that moment usually doesn't call for another protocol or tool, and why the relationship itself can become the disconfirming experience.

Stick around after we close for the full audio of the "What Is SIP?" case walkthrough, a composite case involving complex trauma, religious rigidity, and neurodivergence.

In this episode

  • The three spheres of SIP and why intersubjectivity matters so much

  • How SIP has evolved as a living model over seven years

  • Why a falling SUD with vanishing activation may not be progress

  • Before, during, and after: seeing trauma, and in-session enactments, as patterns and not single moments

  • Early attachment trauma and why the therapist can feel like the threat

  • The "what do I do?" question, and why it works best after you zoom out

  • Shared language for clients, colleagues, and ourselves

Resources

  • Watch the "What Is SIP?" video and download the free companion worksheet: connectbeyondhealing.com/sip

  • SIP alumni can retake the training for free

Upcoming trainings and workshops (calendar.connectbeyondhealing.com)

  • SIP: When the Target Won't Move, our first training for Australia and New Zealand (8:30 PM to 1:30 AM Central)

  • Enactment Focused EMDR: Nov 11, 12:30 to 4:30 PM Central

  • AI in the Therapy Room: Dec 2, 9 AM to 1 PM Central

  • EMDR and the Therapeutic Relationship: Dec 9, 12:30 to 4:30 PM Central

  • EMDR and Grief: Jan 6, 12:30 to 4:30 PM Central

Free workshops and longer CE workshops ($95) can be filtered on the course calendar.

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