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The Two Channels
The move that changed my work wasn't picking the right channel. It was saying the menu out loud.
Aug 15
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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Inside EMDRIA: Standards, Community, and the Plane We're Building Together with Viviana Urdaneta | Notice That
Most of us meet EMDRIA as a set of requirements.
Aug 15
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
1:04:02
Deeper in the Cave
The target memory is real, but may not be the actual trauma.
Aug 7
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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Why the SUD Stalls at a Two: Plato's Cave, Target Selection, and Relational Trauma | The Relational Thread
You prepped the target properly.
Aug 7
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
33:11
Queering EMDR Therapy with Roshni Chabra, Lisa Hayes, and Mish Kumar-Jonson | Notice That
The eight-phase protocol was built to be learned, practiced, and trusted — and most of us were trained to hold it carefully.
Aug 6
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
1:12:56
On Target, or a Tangent?: How We Decide what Counts in EMDR | The Relational Thread
Most of us were trained with real care to attend to one half of the room.
Aug 4
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
38:33
July 2026
The Third Strand
The field you were both raised inside isn't the backdrop to the work. It may be part of the mechanism.
Jul 31
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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An Anti-Racist EMDR: Predictive Processing, Parts, and the Genogram with David Archer | Notice That
EMDR was built to trust the client's system.
Jul 30
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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1:04:07
The Contradiction
Presence isn't the soft support around trauma work. It may be the mechanism.
Jul 24
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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Why a Blank Slate Can't Rewrite a Memory: The Contradiction | The Relational Thread
Two sessions.
Jul 24
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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27:41
The Self We Suppress
The person of the therapist is the instrument of the work — and the discipline of actually using it.
Jul 16
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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Presencing: Empowering the Self We Suppressed | The Relational Thread
Somewhere in our training, most of us learned to keep our faces still.
Jul 16
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Bridger Falkenstien, PhD
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